My best buddy cried very hard on his 17th birthday....??
Question: since two wks ago that he told me he was gay, we hardly talk i guess coz i freaked out that my best buddy had turn into gay. our coach had noticed it even in our practice, last week were prcticing a play i fouled and bumped him very hardly that he fall on his back, usually i hold his hand to pull him up this time i turn my back. i know its stupid of me but??? i attended his birthday party last wk and give him a gift with personal printing of BEST BUDDY with his photo and a cap with my name. i hug him but its more of a show as our parents are there. i tried to avoid him and he texted me to goto his room. i hesitated but i still go up, usully i go in but this time i knock. i saw him alone holding my open gift. we never talked for few minutes then he said im sorry and asked me to tell nobody of his sexuality and i promised him i will do as he wanted. its kind of weird but i think i need time.he cried heavily its the first time i saw him cried that way. i pity him.pls give me your thoughts
Answers: I think you should talk to your friend and let him know that you are going to be his friend no matter what. Let him know that you are not gay but you still would like to be friends. Just because your friends gay doesnt mean he wants you. How would you want people to treat you if they found out that you had aids or something??? Treat him like you would want to be treated. If hes trusting you with his secret you should keep this private. When hes ready he will tell people. In response to what that other person wrote on here I dont think being gay is something you choose. You cannot help what kind of people you are attracted to.Im not gay but I do have a few friends who are.
3 words, WTF, its like your trying to speak to me, but somewhere in your schooling, a grammar teacher failed miserably.
First off, your buddy didn't turn gay. He was always gay. He's the same person you always knew, your friend. The ONLY thing that has changed is that you know him a little better than you did before. He told you he was gay because you were his friend, and he trusted you. It would be a big help to him if you could get over your prejudices and fears, and be supportive to him, and continue to be his friend.
Just continue to be his friend. I know it was a shock to you but he is still the same person he was before you found out he was gay. He trusted you with a huge secret and you let him down. He is not going to rape you, he just wants the friend back that he thought he had in you. Lots of people have gay friends but that does not mean they are gay also. You owe him an apology. He told his best friend his deepest secret and you turned on him. WTF means what the f***. You are a smart man right. You can figure that out. If you don't want to be around him anymore you need to tell him so he can move on with his life. Maybe you should take your gift back BEST BUDDY.
This is a very touchy story my friend. I'm glad you took my advice to attend his party. Now, what you have to do is be there for him and support him, like never before. Since you've got no secrets from each other now, your friendship will be even stronger. Don't hesitate to contact me for more details and/or advice.
there is nothing wrong with him being gay, you just have to exept it and be his mate.
the best way is just support him don't make him feel like a freak
You should pity him for making such a stupid DECISION. He's gay and chose to be that way. I would've done what you did.
Answers: I think you should talk to your friend and let him know that you are going to be his friend no matter what. Let him know that you are not gay but you still would like to be friends. Just because your friends gay doesnt mean he wants you. How would you want people to treat you if they found out that you had aids or something??? Treat him like you would want to be treated. If hes trusting you with his secret you should keep this private. When hes ready he will tell people. In response to what that other person wrote on here I dont think being gay is something you choose. You cannot help what kind of people you are attracted to.Im not gay but I do have a few friends who are.
3 words, WTF, its like your trying to speak to me, but somewhere in your schooling, a grammar teacher failed miserably.
First off, your buddy didn't turn gay. He was always gay. He's the same person you always knew, your friend. The ONLY thing that has changed is that you know him a little better than you did before. He told you he was gay because you were his friend, and he trusted you. It would be a big help to him if you could get over your prejudices and fears, and be supportive to him, and continue to be his friend.
Just continue to be his friend. I know it was a shock to you but he is still the same person he was before you found out he was gay. He trusted you with a huge secret and you let him down. He is not going to rape you, he just wants the friend back that he thought he had in you. Lots of people have gay friends but that does not mean they are gay also. You owe him an apology. He told his best friend his deepest secret and you turned on him. WTF means what the f***. You are a smart man right. You can figure that out. If you don't want to be around him anymore you need to tell him so he can move on with his life. Maybe you should take your gift back BEST BUDDY.
This is a very touchy story my friend. I'm glad you took my advice to attend his party. Now, what you have to do is be there for him and support him, like never before. Since you've got no secrets from each other now, your friendship will be even stronger. Don't hesitate to contact me for more details and/or advice.
there is nothing wrong with him being gay, you just have to exept it and be his mate.
the best way is just support him don't make him feel like a freak
You should pity him for making such a stupid DECISION. He's gay and chose to be that way. I would've done what you did.
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