Emotional abuse leaving during good times???
Question: i have been with a guy for 5 years he is emotional abusive, i was going to leave but lately he has been extra nice and has givin me some really nice gifts. We also have 4 children, but i dont really love him any more.
Answers: If you don't love him, then love yourself enough to know you deserve better. Your kids will adapt to the change over time. Be strong and stand up to the abuse. Write yourself a pros and cons list of the relationship.
I was once in a emotional abusive relationship but got out of it because it wasn't love I was always sad and he was always bringing me down. My best advice to you is to follow your heart, if it say's that you don't love him then leave because you will never be truly happy with someone that has done you wrong in the past and you don't love any more. He had a chance to treat you right befor he wanted to start being nice. He probably sences that you want to leave him and your tired of the bull----. But babie let me tell you misery love company!!! and he is miserable in order to want to tear the person that he suppose to love and cherish down.
Hes being extra nice because he wants to keep you. This may be temporary if so than you probably should leave him. If not give him a second chance maybe he will change for the good and you may start feeling love for him again. You have probably lost feelings for him out of protection to your own heart and maybe thinking he must not love you very much to treat you that way. If you cant find love for him again then its probably time to end it. Good luck to you
Answers: If you don't love him, then love yourself enough to know you deserve better. Your kids will adapt to the change over time. Be strong and stand up to the abuse. Write yourself a pros and cons list of the relationship.
I was once in a emotional abusive relationship but got out of it because it wasn't love I was always sad and he was always bringing me down. My best advice to you is to follow your heart, if it say's that you don't love him then leave because you will never be truly happy with someone that has done you wrong in the past and you don't love any more. He had a chance to treat you right befor he wanted to start being nice. He probably sences that you want to leave him and your tired of the bull----. But babie let me tell you misery love company!!! and he is miserable in order to want to tear the person that he suppose to love and cherish down.
Hes being extra nice because he wants to keep you. This may be temporary if so than you probably should leave him. If not give him a second chance maybe he will change for the good and you may start feeling love for him again. You have probably lost feelings for him out of protection to your own heart and maybe thinking he must not love you very much to treat you that way. If you cant find love for him again then its probably time to end it. Good luck to you
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